“We must learn to hold the tension between the reality of the moment and the possibility that something better might emerge.”

Sometimes, it looks like we have two choices: up or down, agree or disagree, fight or flight.  There is a third way, though, Parker Palmer reminds us. Instead of trying to resolve every tension quickly, consider “allowing opposing ideas to enrich and enlarge each other until a new vision emerges” … Read More

“The menu, like love, was full of delicate, gruesome things — cheeks, tongues, thymus glands.”

Moore croppedNo writer can make me laugh harder but wince longer than Lorrie Moore. Here is a sample of her humor: “Mike’s friends, however, tended to be tense, intellectually earnest Protestants who drove new, metallic-hued cars and who within five minutes of light conversation could be counted on at … Read More